The Journey ends. Before it Begins…

This BLOG does not require any Date, Time or Place to mention.

Once a very hard Question was asked by Anonymous to me, that “Have you ever lost a loved one?” this Question stops my heart beats for a moment. But with a very tough heart I said, “I have”, and ofcourse it hurts in many ways as all of us know how it is difficult to answer it. With another Memorial Day soon to arrive, it’s time to ask the burning question, “Are we truly prepared?” Many of us do get caught flat-footed. We have that temptation to avoid unpleasant things. We wish to ourselves, if we do not dwell on them, they just might go away. That is called “magical thinking” and it rarely comes to pass. Whom are we fooling…but ourselves?

Indeed, all of life involves trade-off of gain and loss. But as we age, we tend to focus more on the “loss” part. If we get fixated on that, we cook our own proverbial goose. Death represents transition. We need to recognize that stagnancy can mistake for “security”. How many of us fall into that mirage? It’s a made-to-order TRAP! Whenever a loved one leaves us, it’s also an opportunity to: (a) take stock of who we really are, and (b) decide for ourselves where we are heading. If the answer comes up discomforting, we need to find the courage to change ofcourse. Sometimes we have climbed into a cozy cocoon. It’s called Co-dependency. We have really taken our old navel cord and attached it to our mate. In so doing, we find our nurture needs met but…we also foster a looming crisis. For if we choose to get caught up in dependency, than loss of Person whom we loves so much means devastation.

As in this situation people generally thinks and ask me, “How we were going to ever live again”. But the TRUTH in which I believe or rather I have experience is that LIFE goes on whether we want it or not. The world keeps turning on no matter how bad we feel. This is why we have to learn how to bounce back and keep moving forward.

Love is a wonderful thing. It’s something that every human being needs and yearns to find at sometime in their Lifetime. Some people are lucky enough to hold onto it while others have it slip through their fingers. Love is the universal symbol that makes us all human. We all know what it means have felt it at one time or another and are always seeking it out. It’s the one thing worth fighting for and the one thing worth dying for.

I always believe one thing in my LIFE that I could never be in LOVE but I also gave my heart away, I also took that leap of faith, I also jumped in head first and however I want to put it or not but I fell in Love. But now it’s GONE. Some other outside force pulled him apart from me and it’s all over all of sudden. It was the situation where I have found myself  trying to hide in the bottom of a bowel of ice – cream or have acquired a large pile of tissues or however a deal with heart ache, but I take it as a “MY WAKE UP CALL”. Today is the day where I have to turn around… as it was like a Message from GOD saying that now I have to WAKE UP and move to my path where still I have to struggle and still so many responsibilities to head up.

It’s been said a million times but today it’s time to implement truly that I am always surrounded by people who love me. Whether it’s family or friends or anyone in between, there is at least one person on the planet who loves me and cares about me. These are the people who need me to start spending more time with and also will be more than happy to reassure me of how wonderful my LIFE is without my Love one whom I have lost.

I know what I have lost, because what I have lost was not only my Loved one but was my FRIEND and the finest person I have ever met in my Life and it’s my Privilege that I was loved by the Person like him. Not only his PRESENCE but his ABSENCE also teaches me so many things and his sudden pass out among us TAUGHT me a LIFE TIME LESSON i.e. how to live a LIFE, how to TRUST ourselves and how to ACCEPT the HARD REALITY of the LIFE.

I am very HAPPY and THANKFUL TO GOD that he gives me those feelings and allows me to enjoy the best moments in LOVE. If I would have been never fall in LOVE, I would have never known true happiness and I would never understand what pain really is until I have lost it. Yes, the loss shall still hurt but not as much. I will emerge as a stronger person with fuller potential. I will not bury myself in the grave of my own making. Like the Phoenix Bird of ancient myth, I will rise from those ashes, and find a new flight path before the angels call me my home one day.

LIFE TIME THOUGHT FOR THE PERSON WHO DOES NOT EXIST IN THIS WORLD BUT STILL EXIST IN MY WORLD…“Who knows how long I’ve loved you, You know I love you still. Will I wait a lonely lifetime? If you want me .. I will”

 

Note: This post is dedicated to Romit. Reason being after few days of regular talking & chatting with his cousin Reehan. I have realized that i should again start writing as Romit always want me to write. My basic grammar in English is subhan aalah as you all know. Each time I re-read the article I felt it’s correct. Still, I felt something missing somewhere (I even didn’t know it was spell and grammar thing) .Hence I asked Shreya to see into it… she helped me with it… Thanx Shreya & Reehan.

Generation Next

A new generation has come of age, shaped by an unprecedented revolution in technology and dramatic events both at home and abroad. They are Generation Next, the cohort of young adults who have grown up with personal computers, cell phones and the internet and are now taking their place in a world where the only constant is rapid change.

In reassuring ways, the generation that came of age in the shadow of Generation Next the so call 21st Cent  shares the characteristics of other generations of young adults. They are generally happy with their lives and optimistic about their futures. Moreover, Gen Nexters feel that educational and job opportunities are better for them today than for the previous generation. At the same time, many of their attitudes and priorities reflect a limited set of life experiences. Marriage, children and an established career remain in the future for most of those in Generation Next.

More than two-thirds see their generations as unique and distinct, yet not all self-evaluations are positive. A majority says that “getting rich” is the main goal of most people in their age group, and large majorities believe that casual sex, binge drinking, illegal drug use and violence are more prevalent among young people today than was the case 20 years ago.

In their political outlook, they are the most tolerant of any generation on social issues such as immigration, race and homosexuality. They are also much more likely to identify with the Democratic Party than was the preceding generation of young people, which could reshape politics in the years ahead. Yet the evidence is mixed as to whether the current generation of young Americans will be any more engaged in the nation’s civic life than were young people in the past, potentially blunting their political impact.

This report takes stock of this new generation. It explores their outlook, their lifestyle and their politics. Because the boundaries that separate generations are indistinct, the definition of Generation Next and other generational groups mentioned in this report are necessarily approximate. For analysis purposes, Generation Next includes those who are between the ages of 18 and 25 years old.

Meet Generation Next:

They use technology and the internet to connect with people in new and distinctive ways. Text messaging, instant messaging and email keep them in constant contact with friends. About half say they sent or received a text message over the phone in the past day, approximately double the proportion of those ages 26-40.

They are the “Look at Me” generation. Social networking sites like Facebook, MySpace and My Yearbook allow individuals to post a personal profile complete with photos and descriptions of interests and hobbies. A majority of Gen Nexters have used one of these social networking sites, and more than four-in-ten have created a personal profile.

Their embrace of new technology has made them uniquely aware of its advantages and disadvantages. They are more likely than older adults to say these cyber-tools make it easier for them to make new friends and help them to stay close to old friends and family. But more than eight-in-ten also acknowledge that these tools “make people lazier.”

About half of Gen Nexters say the growing number of immigrants to the U.S. strengthens the country more than any generation. And they also lead the way in their support for gay marriage and acceptance of interracial dating.

Beyond these social issues, their views defy easy categorization. For example, Generation Next is less critical of government regulation of business but also less critical of business itself. And they are the most likely of any generation to support privatization of the Social Security system.

They maintain close contact with parents and family. Roughly eight-in-ten say they talked to their parents in the past day. Nearly three-in-four see their parents at least once a week, and half say they see their parents’ daily ~ one reason: money. About three-quarters of Gen Nexters say their parents have helped them financially in the past year.

Their parents may not always be pleased by what they see on those visits home: About half of Gen Nexters say they have either gotten a tattoo, dyed their hair an untraditional color, or had a body piercing in a place other than their ear lobe. The most popular are tattoos, which decorate the bodies of more than a third of these young adults.

One-in-five members of Generation Next say they have no religious affiliation or are atheist or agnostic, nearly double the proportion of young people who said that in the late 1980s. And just 4% of Gen Nexters say people in their generation view becoming more spiritual as their most important goal in life.

They are somewhat more interested in keeping up with politics and national affairs than were young people a generation ago. Still, only a third says they follow what’s going on in government and public affairs “most of the time.”

Voter turnout among young people increased significantly between 2000 and 2004, interrupting a decades-long decline in turnout among the young. Nonetheless, most members of Generation Next feel removed from the political process. Only about four-in-ten agree with the statement: “It’s my duty as a citizen to always vote.”

They are significantly less cynical about government and political leaders than or the previous generation of young people. A majority of them agree with the statement: “When something is run by the government, it is usually inefficient and wasteful,” but most Generation Nexters reject this idea.

Their heroes are close and familiar. When asked to name someone they admire, they are twice as likely as older people to name a family member, teacher, or mentor. Moreover, roughly twice as many young people say they most admire an entertainer rather than a political leader.

They are more comfortable with globalization and new ways of doing work. They are the most likely of any age group to say that automation, the outsourcing of jobs, and the growing number of immigrants have helped and not hurt any workers.

Asked about the life goals of those in their age group, most Gen Nexters say their generation’s top goals are fortune and fame. Roughly eight-in-ten say people in their generation think getting rich is either the most important, or second most important, goal in their lives. About half say that becoming famous also is valued highly by fellow Gen Nexters.

The whole article mainly focus on the four main sections: (1) Outlook and World View, (2) Technology and Lifestyle, (3) Politics and Policy, and (4) Values and Social Issues.

Curiosity

As if Left brain is talking to Right brain

There’s an explosion of a dialogue

Some questions and some answers

And sometimes there was silence

Manifesting wordless dances

Like a wave of beautiful dance comes from

A direction unknown to humanity

Words are spreading like rays of sun

While silence is spreading its wings all over

What is all these?

Why is it?

It’s just like this and it will be like this…

Curiosity: Who are you?

Knowledge: You are part of me if I say so does that make you understand?

Curiosity: I am only part of you? So when I will be whole and if I will be whole then who will I be?

Knowledge: Question is just a small ladder that may reach towards me but if before question if there is invocation of a prayer then you dont require ladder any more.

Curiosity: Prayer? Prayer for what?

Knowledge is in silence at this time.

There is no word

There is no sound

Only silence is existing

Curiosity: Is my question wrong?

Knowledge: Question is only ladder but the direction of the ladder can be wrong.

Curiosity: I am feeling something unusual – I am loosing my words – something is happening…

Knowledge is witnessing.

Witnessing the transforming Curiosity

Curiosity changed into many layers

Anger, impatience, ego, ignorance

Depression, arrogance…

Knowledge is silent, healthy

Curiosity is just beside Knowledge

Yet Curiosity…

Stress alleviation of employees, hard job for employers

Even though holiday spirit cheer up employees, they might feel under stress due to added responsibility at home. During holiday season, people are stretched thin from the shopping, the spending, the social gatherings and the household preparations and to make it worse they are sacrificing their valuable weekends and leisure time to fit in more decorating, wrapping or baking. This causes employees to come in to work feeling anxious, burned out, depressed or distracted.

By providing ways to limit holiday-related stress, employers can help their people maintain the work-life balance they’ve worked so hard to establish during the year.

According to Winnipeg Free Press, a survey by the Society for Human Resource Management has revealed few interesting things that employers do for their employees in holiday season. Around 51 percent schedule holiday events during regular business hours. 33 percent show appreciation for employees who work during a holiday. 32 percent encourage casual dress at the holiday party. 30 percent provide complimentary food and beverages. 23 percent give out year-end bonuses early to help out with gift shopping. 14 percent offer reduced hours so employees can run errands. Eight percent offer extra shifts to employees wanting to earn holiday spending money.

Many employees have successfully implemented these strategies as the survey suggest. Simply by showing some sensitivity and empathy and offers employees some much-needed comfort and joy during the holiday season.

There are few additional steps that employers can carry out. An employer should be open to offer flexible schedules and extended lunch hours. When employees put in extra time to get their work done, allow them to take time off during the day when they need to run errands or navigate shopping malls. Instead of only offering a paid Holidays break, employer should consider creating floating holidays to honor all cultural and religious traditions in a diverse workplace. Also, employers should make it clear that attendance at holiday events are voluntary, not mandatory. No one should feel pressured to accept the invitation and there should be no repercussions if they choose not to come.

Many companies are open 365 days a year and need staff to work the holidays. Employers should remember those who are giving up their family time by doing something special for them, whether it is providing thank-you treats or small tokens of appreciation. Also, an employer should remind employees about the true meaning of the season by arranging a staff field trip to help wrap gifts, pack hampers, and serve meals or any other activity.

Quit… Not to Quit

This Story is said by our Beloved “Guruji – Shri Ajit Telang”.

One day I decided to quit…I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality. .. I wanted to quit my life. I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.

“God”, I said. “Can you give me one good reason not to quit?”

His answer surprised me… “Look around”, He said. “Do you see the fern and the bamboo?”

“Yes”, I replied.

When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. He said. “In the third year, there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In the fourth year, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. “I would not quit.” He said. “Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant. .. But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive.

“I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle”

He said to me. “Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots.” “I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you. “Don’t compare you to others  …”

He said. “The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern … Yet, they both make the forest beautiful.” Your time will come, “God said to me.” You will rise high”

How high should I rise?.. I asked. How high will the bamboo rise?” He asked in return. “As high as it can? ” I questioned. ” Yes. “He said, “Give me glory by rising as high as you can. “

I left the forest and bring back this story.

I hope these words can help you see that, “God will never give up on you.. Never regret a day in your life. Good days give you happiness Bad days give you experiences both are essential to life. A happy and meaningful life requires our continuous input and creativity.  It does not happen by chance. It happens because of our choices and actions. And each day we are given new opportunities to choose and act and, in doing so, we create our own unique journey. “No work is insignificant. All labour that uplifts humanity has dignity and importance and should be undertaken with painstaking excellence.”

Friends Talk like this…

This is a very good thought share by “Arohi” which i would like to share with all my friends.

My all Friends are very important in my LIFE …

Below thoughts show how the World of Friendship is free from all Formalities. Here there is no expectations, no explanations & no EGOES.

Friendship is not about “I m sorry “  its about “abbe  teri  galti hai “
 
Friendship is not about “I m there for u” or “I missed u “  it’s about “kahan marr gaiye sab..   “
 
Friendship is not about “I understand “  its about “Nalayak sab teri wajah se hua“
 
Friendship is not about “I care for u  “  its about “kamino tumhe chhod ke kahan jao “
 
Friendship is not about “I m happy for ur success “ its about “chal party de … “ 
 
Friendship is not about “R u coming for outing tomorrow “ its about “ nautanki nahi, hum kal bahar ja rahe hai “

Friendship is not about “Get well soon “ its about “ Chal Nautanki Bandh aur Kaam Surru… “

Friendship is not about “All the best for ur career“ its about “ bahut hua, abhi toh switch mar yarrrr“

Friendship is not about “Listenining Carefully” it about “Baandh kar teri roj ki Bakwaas”

Friendship is not about “Choice” it about “Abe tere paas koi Option hai kya…???”

Friendship is not about “Thank You” it about “Abe Hak hai …”

Friendship is not about “Helping” it about “Chal Dosti Nibhane ka time a gaiya hai…”

“It is truely said … Dosto ki ek Khaas Jagah hoti hai… in my life i have experienced it..”

Dedicated to my ALL FRIENDS…

PERCEPTION … something to think about

Hi, Just to share with you what we have been missing in our daily rush life.

This is a sharing by Kalpita Keer one of my friend and a Reiki Sadhak…

Washington, DC Metro Station on a cold January morning in 2007.

The man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time approx. 2 thousand people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After 3 minutes a middle aged man noticed there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried to meet his schedule.
 
4 minutes later:
the violinist received his first dollar: a woman threw the money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk..
 
6 minutes:
A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.
 
10 minutes:
A 3-year old boy stopped but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. Every parent, without exception, forced their children to move on quickly.

 
45 minutes:
The musician played continuously.  Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace.  The man collected a total of $32.

1 hour:
He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.
 
No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before Joshua Bell sold out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.

This is a true story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people’s priorities. The questions raised: in a common place environment at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?
 
 One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:  If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made…. How many other things are we missing?     

 

A lot of friendships do get transformed after marriage. We explore why…

(yesterday November 16, 2009 @ 10.17 PM – When Shreya calls me ~ I got a thought to write an Article ~ based on our Conversation)

Accept it. Once you get into relationship of Marriage it’s obvious that you get Change and it is also observed that friendships will change. You cannot be the same person who can attend calls at any hour of the day or slip out for a sip of coffee when your friend is down and out.

All because marriage is definitely a lifestyle change. And it is not only married couples who try to adjust to the new environment, but even friends find it difficult to adjust to the new Change.

Me & My Friend Shreya, we are pals right from our School years. But when Shreya got married, I thought our days of friendship will now lose its charm, I felt insecure, I started to distance myself from her because she was busy with her new life and I started missing our good old constant talk. Now we meet once a month. It doesn’t matter to me much now.” When she got married, I initially found it difficult because I was pretty much dependent on her for everything and then I saw her going out with her husband, new family and social outings. We never got “our time”. But I later realized that it happens and didn’t let these new changes affect our friendship, this credit goes to the Shreya & her Idealist Attitude towards our relationship and just because of her today I am good friend with Prashil (her Husband). We three are company today. She was dealing not only with a different social status, but also a plethora of other issues that a newly wed couple faces. Since I was closest to her I shared everything with her without realizing that she was facing her own difficulties in accepting the new world. But I didn’t let her go. We still talk.

After when we fininh our conversation I remember few lines of My Friend Sameer Parikh, Psychologist who explains once that, “People need company and when they see their company drifting apart, it is obvious that a feeling of rejection sets in. This is especially difficult for single friends who do not have a huge friends circle or seek a lot of comfort in you and this is not the case only with the same gender friends but it gets even trickier with friends of the opposite gender.

Before Shreya’s Marriage I always had an impression that friendships change after one get married and have kids? It’s true, and it’s the result of a combination of factors that include a decrease in free time and a shift in priorities. Many a times I faced with tension when it comes to friendships outside my other relationship.

Shreya always stand to me a Person whom I Admire a lottt  everytime in every Aspects, Yesterday also she answer the thing may be knowingly or unknowingly which was contineously hamering me from last couple of weeks. Again yesterday the same thing happen when we were talking, she asked “People generally get change after Marriage” it was somehow not accepted to me as Shreya & Prashil Marriage had taught me that understanding and accepting each other’s differences is the key to nurturing the friendship within your own relationship and developing friendships with others. Friendships provide support, keep us from feeling lonely, and make us well-rounded people.

For Shreya & Me ~ ofcourse maintaining a good friendships takes time and effort. As our life progresses, we have divided our precious time among an ever-growing circle of people, which leaves less time for both of us. For Shreya Priorities always changes rather shifts. She had always set boundary of Commitment towards a relationship whether it is a close friend or a family member. She has always valued our friendship even though we can’t be able to hang out as often.

We both have accepted that our friend’s lives are and will change too and we are always ready for it…

The most beautiful Discovery we both have make is that we grow seperately without growing apart because of our Difference of Opinion.

This whole Article talks about Changes in Friendship after Marriage, ofcourse changes do come and I think changes should come with a level of Maturity & Responsibility but very few can able to Maintain the Relationship of Friendship till soo long. If the level of Maturity and Understanding of Relationship also moves with the passage of time it is very easy to maintain a relationship but if suppose a person resist to Change then it will be difficult to sustain a relationship for a prolonged period of time.

This article is dedicated to Shreya & Prashil who includes friends like us as a company in their Journey of Life.

Today in Morning

TODAY IN MORNING (November 11, 2009)

 Good Morning!!!

Today’s morning was very pleasant, it seems not too cold and not too lazy, it was complete fresh morning as seems like I was in some other world. This is something what I have experience and would like to share with you and I request viewers should read at least once and make sure you read to the end….

 It is one of the most-requested columns I’ve written”.

 This morning I spend only 180 mins i.e. 2.5 hours; in this time I realized that Life isn’t a fair to me some moments, but it’s still good to me always..today I said SORRY for all those things I have done to others knowingly and unknowingly and forgive all those things happen to me also because I thought Life is too short why to waste time in hating anyone. In this just small time I have lived my whole life and enjoy the each moments as if now I am not gonna live anymore. Peace of Today’s Morning teaches me that forget the PAST it won’t screw up the PRESENT.

 Being a working person, I am always dedicated to my JOB and give importance & priority to my work first rather than my family and friends. But today’s Morning make me feel that My JOB won’t take care of me when I’ll be sick, I need to spend some quality time with my family & friends.

 Silence of Early Morning teaches me that wining on every Argument is not necessary every time, many a times we have to “AGREE TO DISAGREE”. As in Professional life we go through many useless Arguments in order to satisfy our so call EGOES.

 Ofcourse I want to forget my PAST as I said previous, but I want to go back to the memories of my CHILDHOOD because it’s never too late to have a happy childhood again. When it comes to going after what you LOVE in LIFE, don’t take NO for an ANSWER. Once My Friend Shreya share one very good thing with me i.e. DO or DIE is an old saying, now it’s time for Doing before we DIE. So I want to enjoy everything before actually I DIE. I don’t want to go from this EARTH with any REGRETS. I want to pray, I want to burn candles, want to eat my favorite food today, I want to wear new clothes & don’t want to wait for any special OCCASION as “TODAY ~ IN MORNING” teach me that “TODAY IS SPECIAL”.

 Many a things matter in my LIFE especially my JOB, CARRIER, FAMILY, FRIENDS, IMAGE IN THE SOCIETY, but TODAY just for two & half hours I Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘’IN FIVE YEARS, WILL THESE MATTERS?’’. At the end Delight of the Environment teach me to choose only LIFE, I forgive everything & everyone, I have stop auditing my LIFE, I STARTED TO SHOW UP & MAKE UP THE MOST OF IT NOW.

  “No man in this world is rich enough to buy his own PAST.
Enjoy each moment before it gets beyond reach.”

 I pray to GOD, everyday when i get up ~ my every Morning should be SPECIAL like TODAY.

 

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“DREAMING IS YOUR RIGHT BUT PROVING IS YOUR DESTINY”.                                                                                                                                                                         (This is not the title of this Article – it is just a line told to me once by a Lady.)

 If I sit to count such influential figures then we will have no empty bag left of such examples. Many a times infact most of times we talk to those people who are successful in any terms, but here this article talks about those people who persist for achievements.

I don’t know how our Society defines “Success & Achievements”. Here this Article is focusing on those people who are left out in this category of Successful. Few people I know like ~ My Mother, My Friend (Shreya), My Aunty (next to my Mom – Shreya’s Mom) and many other people out of my knowledge who are spending their life or whole life for our betterment or infact investing their whole time in making us a Successful person.

 What give me a thought to write on this when I realized how my MOM, people of her AGE & SHREYA (friend) working hard for us forgetting their GASTRONOMIC ACHIEVEMENTS for fulfilling our demands.

 It takes time but last not least I realized that this people are doing a great job. Through this people I’ve come to believe that all my past failure and frustration was actually laying the foundation for the understandings that have created the new level of living which is right now I am enjoying. They don’t think what they get, but they become ~ a Daughter, Friend, Wife, Mother what is expected from them time to time and they genuinely contribute… these all gives meaning to their as well our lives.

 Most of the people have no idea of the giant capacity they have inner built, we can immediately command on them whatever our demands are and they have to focus on all of our resources on mastering a single area of our lives forgetting their wishes or demands. Once if we silently realized than we will understand how true it is, that most people overestimate what they can accomplish in a year – and underestimate what they can achieve in a decade. The basic difference among us and this people is that we try to know what to do and they actually do what they know.

 When I look at them I feel that still I have not reached to their level. They silently achieve so many things by themselves without earning any money or fame or publicity. Their Achievements are countless ofcourse we are not awarding them for this but the fact is they are so highly valued people who don’t required any award because we people with so called label of Success are less successful or infact no comparison with them in comparison to their grand achievement and fact is we are awarded with such People, I am very lucky to have such awarding people in my Life.

 “This Article is purely dedicated to all those Mothers, my Friend and women who are investing their lives for their own ones without expecting any compensation for that. This article doesn’t contain any title because I don’t find any appropriate title. Viewers can suggest me some good Title appropriately suitable to this Article.”